A New Chapter

With the start of my sophomore year of college, I made a goal of becoming more involved on campus than I had been my freshman year. Even though I am only a little over a month into the year, I can pat myself on the back for being successful.

First, a friend convinced me to join a committee for student government. At the University of South Carolina, these committee positions are pretty low stress opportunities to get involved on campus and voice your opinions on whatever topic your committee is discussing. I am officially a member of two, one dealing with scholastic standards and the other with health services, which is also a benefit to my resume since I am going into healthcare. During high school, I was never involved with student government, it just didn’t seem like my thing so I participated in other things. Now,even though I never saw myself doing it, I am involved and I am enjoying it. I like the idea of making decisions that will benefit not only me and my fellow Gamecocks but future ones as well.

The second, and probably most life changing, decision I have made is that I have joined a sorority. This was a pretty impulsive decision but over the summer when I was with some of my friends who had gone through recruitment, it made me really regret not going through it. But I decided not to do it as a sophomore for various reasons one of which is that it can be very expensive at my school.Then during the first few weeks of campus I kept passing this light blue tent. When one of the women there mentioned that it was for a social sorority, I later googled it to learn more and I decided to go to an interest meeting to find out more, because “why not? it can’t hurt.” and that resulted in a weekend filled with recruitment activities.

Pi Beta Phi was rechartering it’s SC Alpha chapter on the USC campus. The women who would accept bids after recruitment would be members of the charter class and set the foundation for the future generations of women who would become Pi Phi’s. This sorority appealed to me in numerous ways. The first and most obvious being that it was a social sorority and it offered me an experience that I thought I had missed out on. Then I learned about the sorority’s goals and philanthropy, as well as met the representatives and I felt like it was a group of women that I wanted to be a part of. And finally, I met the other women going through recruitment. Many of them were like me, interested in starting something and making an impact but not interested in the Greek stereotype from the media or fitting into a mold carved by a sorority’s reputation on campus. We all loved the idea of being the first class and creating a positive reputation. On Saturday night, when I got the email telling me “Congratulations!” on getting a bid to Pi Beta Phi, I felt like I was walking on air.

Although there have only been a couple of meetings so far since bid day, I am starting to meet my new sisters and I cannot believe how much I already love it. The women I have met so far are fantastic and I know in my heart that this is not an experience I will regret. And this is my lesson for all my fellow college students or for those high school seniors about to venture into this new world. Don’t be afraid to get involved but make sure it feels right and it is something you are truly interested in, even if you have never done it before or shown an interest. College is about change and expanding your horizons, so meet people, grow, and find whatever organization allows you to do these things while being yourself.

College Tips: Choosing a University

By May of your senior year, you should have received all of your college acceptance letters. Now comes the time to choose your school, this is the place where you will be spending the next four years of your life so it is an important decision to make.

Alright so lets say you got accepted to 2 or more universities. Going by your gut instinct you can probably cross one or two of them off on your list but if your parents still want you to consider them, give it some thought. Some things to consider when making your decision are:

1. The education. Does it have a good program for your intended major? What about class sizes and teacher to student ratios? Are they what you would feel most comfortable with and provide the best environment to learn. Also, does it have other major programs? Most college students change their major a couple of times before graduating, so whatever school you choose should probably have at least one or two other options for you. 
2. The facilities. A big part of college is living on your own. What are the dorms like? Are they nice enough that you would be fine living there or are they tiny and dingy? Will you be able to live on campus for all four years if you want to or will you have to find an apartment or house off campus? What about laundry? Do you have to pay for it and is there a laundry room in your building with enough washers/dryers for the dorm? 
3. The socializing. Social interactions are a huge part of the college experience. So does the school have enough groups and organizations that you will be able to find people to get along with as well as expand your horizons by meeting new and different people. Are you interested in going Greek? Does the school have multiple sororities/ fraternities if you want to do so? Are you religious? Is there a place of worship in the area for you to attend? Are there student groups available so you can meet people with your shared beliefs? Do you enjoy watching sports? Does the school provide tickets to students or do you pay to attend games?
4. The money. Unfortunately, college is expensive and so money plays a huge role in deciding where to go. Give careful consideration to the amount of scholarship money you would receive when attending there as well as the different prices in tuition. One school may give you more scholarship money but if the tuition is higher, you would still end up paying more than the other school. Also consider any scholarships you may have from sources other than the school. One of the reasons I stayed in South Carolina for college is because our state lottery pays for scholarships for students remaining in-state for college. Also any scholarships from organizations may restrict colleges for which the scholarship obey is valid.
5. The size & location. These are both factors about a school that are impossible to change. You need to give careful consideration about the school’s population size. Do you want to be in a place where you know everyone? Or would you rather be in a place where you can constantly meet someone new? Is the campus small and enclosed or is it spread out? Is it located in a big city or a small college town? Which of these makes you feel more comfortable? Also consider the weather. I am definitely used to southern weather, so I would not enjoy going to school up in Michigan or New York because I would be miserable in the winter. Do you want to venture far from home, like my friend who went from living in Washington state to going to college across the country in South Carolina. Or would you prefer to be close enough to home to visit as frequently (or as infrequently) as you want?            
6. The safety. One unfortunate part of college life is the increased chance that something bad will happen. People are young and make bad decisions, drinking and staying out way past midnight also play a role in the increased risk of danger. Whether this danger is from people who go on campus to take advantage of college students or students who make poor choices, safety is a key part of any campus. What security measures are there? On my campus there are security stations located throughout campus that act as a direct line to the emergency operators who can dispatch police or medical services to the area. These poles are lit up and located within view of one another so that if you are running from an attacker you can hit each button as you run past and the police can follow your path. Also since our campus is so huge, we have our own police force. But thats not all of our security. In dorms, you need your student I.D. to be allowed into buildings and in mine there was a security desk that required all guests be checked in as well as monitored any suspicious characters. The police also offered a service through which you can register your more expensive possessions like computers, phones, cameras, bikes, gaming systems, etc. so that in case they are stolen, the police will have a record or what you own as well as the serial numbers on those items. This way if they find stolen items they will be able to return them to the owner. All of these security measures let me feel safe, which I greatly appreciate.
7. Gut Feeling. How did you feel when you walked around campus? Did it just feel right for you? This is definitely something you should consider when making your choice. If you walked around campus and felt out of place, uncomfortable or unhappy and bored out of your mind then maybe thats not the place for you. This will be your HOME, so it should make you feel comfortable and safe as well as excited for the next step in your life. This gut feeling was especially important for me when I made my college decision. I had not originally planned on attending the University of South Carolina, I thought that it might be too big for me and that I wouldn’t want to live in Columbia, South Carolina. For a while I was positive that I would attend Winthrop University in Rock Hill, SC. I toured it and could really see myself going there. The funny part of this story was  that we almost didn’t tour USC because it was the last of our college tours and my mom and I were kind of done with them at that point. But we figured since we signed up we might as well go. Its a good thing we did because I fell in love. I finally knew what people were talking about when they said “when you get there, you just know”. When the tour was over and we were in the car heading back home, I knew that USC was the place I was meant to be.

Choosing a college is no easy task. What matters most is choosing a place where you believe you will not only succeed but also expand your horizons and discover new things about yourself. Stay true to yourself, DON’T choose a college based on what other people want or expect you to do. Don’t go somewhere because that’s where your high school boyfriend or girlfriend is going. Relationships change in college and following someone to a school you don’t love will be something you will probably regret even if you stay with that person throughout college. Don’t let your family pressure you into going somewhere because its their alma mater or they really liked the school. They will be happy but in the end you won’t be. This is also the start of your life as an adult so you need to take charge and make adult decisions regarding your life and future.

Best of luck with your decision.

Puppy Love

A little over a week ago my family visited an animal shelter to look for a new dog. About 6 years ago we went to the same shelter to get our current dog Jasper who is a shepherd/ lab mix that we love.

After about a 3 year campaign of “Jasper needs a friend”, I finally convinced my family to adopt another dog. So we went to the animal shelter because we are firm believers in rescuing animals and giving them the loving homes they previously were without. My sister and I were obviously very excited to find a dog to bring home and play with but I had forgotten how much animal shelters depress me.
Walking around and looking at the hundred or more dogs made me want to cry, as well as buy a farm where I could give like 10 dogs a loving home. As you walk around, some of the dogs bark and beg for your attention but others just lay there looking at you sadly like they’ve seen enough people walking around to know they aren’t going home with someone soon. Like I said it makes me want to cry and become an old dog lady.
We found a dog that we loved, the shelter had named her Ava and she was a cute hound mix. We brought Jasper by the next day to make sure they got along, and then we officially adopted her!! We renamed her Andi because we liked it better and she didn’t answer to Ava.
It’s been a week since we brought her home and she has settled in wonderfully. Jasper and Andi get along quite well (although Jasper is still adjusting to having another dog around) and I am so happy we were able to bring Andi into the family.

I definitely recommend that anyone willing and able to give a dog a loving home adopt one from a local shelter. I mean how can you say no to that face?

College Tips: The Waiting Game

So you’ve finished ALL of your applications, what happens next? You wait. Wait for that oversized envelope stating “Congratulations!” or the “I’m sorry to inform you” letter that no one wants to see. There’s not much you can do during this time except enjoy your senior year. If you want to be productive on the college front

1. Make sure your on track to graduate. Worrying about college acceptance shouldn’t be your main concern if your grades, especially in required classes, are suffering due to a case of senioritis.
2. More applications. Start looking into additional scholarships and begin applying to receive the financial aid. Some applications can be quite extensive so get started (hopefully you saved the information form your college apps to cut down on the work) so you can finished before the due dates. They also probably require teacher recommendations so give those to your teachers ASAP so they have plenty of time to work on them.
3. Retake exams. Now I know taking the ACT and SAT are no one’s idea of a good time but you still have time to take these tests one or two more times to improve your scores. Better scores can increase the amount of scholarship money you are qualified to receive.

But there’s not much you have to do besides make sure you can graduate and wait for the day you get those letters in the mail. Hopefully you don’t have to wait too long to find out, I know it stresses everyone out.

Happy Mother’s Day

I just want to wish a Happy Mother’s Day to all the mothers out there! I hope everyone has something special planned for their moms and of you got them a gift, that it’s better than mine which is currently considered a work in progress. (Oops, sorry mom.) Well that’s about it, everyone have a fun day with your moms!

College Tips: The Application Process

As a college student, who just finished their freshmen year, with a sister that is rising senior in high school, college is a highly discussed topic in my house. Anyone who has gone through the college process recently can tell you it is extensive, stressful and nerve-wracking . The key to avoiding the majority of this stress is to not procrastinate. My mother is a firm believer in being prepared, so about a dozen weekends my junior year were spent touring various colleges that either I or my parents were interested in. I definitely recommend touring during junior year, that way you can at least narrow down the list of colleges you want to apply to.

When it comes time to start applications, start as soon as possible. The summer before senior year, check when the colleges you want to apply to so that you know when they put up their applications (typically sometime in August). It’s important to start these before school starts, because you will be even busier with homework and activities and won’t want to spend hours filling out personal information and writing essays. Applications are already painful enough without adding the stress of school to it. 

Here’s some tips to be prepared for applications:

1. Have your information ready. Applications ask for information about your family’s finances, test scores (including the individual scores on the different sections),and your high school GPA. Anytime an application asks for information you do not know off the top of your head, save it in a document because you never know if you next applications will ask the same question and you don’t want to waste time figuring out the answer for a second time.
2. Compile a list of high school activities. Every college’s application has a section that asks for your extracurricular activities so have a list prewritten including the years you participated. Where you a member of the Spanish Club freshman and sophomore years? Played tennis all four? Sing in choir junior year? Dance on the dance team at games and competitions?
3. Think about applying early. Some colleges allow students to apply early which also enable you to find out sooner if you were accepted. BUT be careful, there is a difference between, Early Action and Early Decision. If an application is Early Decision that means that your acceptance is binding and that if you are accepted you agree to attend that college. If you are 100% certain you want to go to a college that offers that, than by all means apply Early Decision but if not just do Early Action. Also do not apply Early Decision to more than one school because if you get into both then you have to pay tuition for both regardless of which one you decide.
4. Don’t procrastinate. Just get them done so that you have one less thing to worry about senior year. 
5. Save everything. The compilation of school activities and the information mentioned earlier (#1 & #2), save those for later. As well as copies of all your essays, you can possibly use them for other applications including the ones you will have to fill out at the end of senior year for scholarships (it just never seems to end)

Hope that helps some of you. Good luck with everything and goodnight. 

Taking the Plunge {into blogging}

I’ve attempted to blog before and it usually does not end how I envision, either I am uninspired in my writing or I just forget and stop trying after a while. This time I am hoping I am more dedicated and keep it up. I’m not entirely sure what direction I want to head towards with this but It’ll probably end up being a mash-up of whatever pops into my head. So here’s a brief snapshot of my interests.

Cooking and Baking

TV crime dramas

 
Country music

Disney

Crafting

Style, although my own wardrobe is a bit lacking #broke

College Student (Go Gamecocks!)